Fear and Ego
Do you ever feel as though you have failed before you even started?
Do you ever make excuses as to why you cannot start today?
Are those excuses the same ones that you have been using for days, months and even years?
Do you feel trapped in your own body when these thoughts appear over and over and over again?
This is called FEAR.
Fear of moving forward. Fear of letting go. Fear of the thoughts of the people around you. Fear of not knowing what the outcome will be. Fear of actually succeeding!
We have all been hurt in the past. Every single one of us. Some more or less then others, but we have still felt that pain.
Our pain remains with us and spills out into every relationship that we have, every thought that we have, every decision that we make, every action that we take.
When our pain takes over we have what is a called an “ego” and our ego will manifest into fear of moving forward and fear of feeling as though our lives are “what it is, there is nothing I can do about it”
Are you one of those people that feed your ego with the pain of the past?
I know I was.
In order to put that pain behind us and have the success within our relationships, our business, our everyday activities that we so much deserve we must learn to forgive OURSELVES!!
Yes, you made mistakes! Yes, you have hurt others! Yes, you have been badly burned! Yes, you have been rejected! Yes, you have been cheated on! Yes, you have done things that you are not proud of!
But guess what? You are human. Life is a school where you learn from the past so that you can do better in the present and in the future.
Give yourself permission to forgive yourself for all the things that you have done in the past that you are not so proud of. Allow yourself to forgive those that hold you in pain and release yourself from the arms of those that pushed pain upon you.
Do not feed that ego anymore.
Release the pain and move forward into success and into a realm of endless possibilities and into the positive light.
Life is waiting for you.